There are no actual guarantees…

SEXY SELLS. Tan skin, thin bodies, shiny hair, big smiles.

Even if you’re not in marketing, you know this to be true. 

“In 21 days, your body will be transformed!” 

“With three shakes a day, you’ll see dramatic results!”

If it’s not going to get you concrete, visual results in a finite and short amount of time, we don’t want to do it. That’s human nature, I suppose. We want the direct route. The quick fix. The guarantee that if we put the work in, we’ll get the desired outcome.

First, let me debunk that in terms of dieting. We’re told if we follow the diet or exercise program, we’ll look like the before and after photo successes on the ads. We’ll also be smiling and successful in our lives; but we tend to ignore the fine print on those ads: Results not typical.

There’s a famous statistic that says 95% of diets fail, and most gain the weight back (and then some) in 1-5 years. Those “after” photos are taken right after the program is completed. They don’t show the full picture of what actually happens years after. The struggle to maintain the results. The mental and physical drain on that person. The fear and anxiety of what people will think if they don’t keep that appear up, the appearance that definitely got them a lot of praise.

Is that really how you want to live your life? With anxiety that you have to “keep up appearances”? The pressure to do so? The mental and physical exhaustion just to make yourself seem a certain way in other people’s eyes?

And we haven’t even touched upon the idea that thin doesn’t equal healthy. Just because you’re thin from a diet, doesn’t mean you’re healthier.

The harsh reality is what’s quick and sexy isn’t typically what’s most healthful to you in the long run. From my experience, intuitive eating isn’t quick or sexy in terms of what it promises you, and it cannot guarantee a conventionally sexy body; but it IS the best thing you can do for authentic health, body-mind-spirit.

Instead of promising anything, this is what intuitive eating promotes:

Graphic by Alana Van Der Sluys

I suggest journaling your “why” for wanting to lose weight. If it’s health reasons, I would challenge that reason with the following questions:

❓What is your definition of health? 

❓Is there another way to heal your ailments without focusing on the weight itself? 

❓What about focusing on your RELATIONSHIP with food and your body instead? 

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Should you experiment with intuitive eating?

Many people are afraid to totally let go of dieting, of the control of it all. We’re afraid to let go of the possibility of being thin, and by extension, desired and accepted.

It’s totally understandable; and while I would highly recommend jumping into intuitive eating with both feet in order to maximize the chances of success in severing ties with diet culture, I think there’s lessons to be learned by dipping a toe in, as well.

Still, there are some caveats I have to warn you of first. 

Intuitive eating is a long-term process with certain steps toward healing that should be done one by one, in sequential order. There are 10 principles that should be implemented one by one.

Graphic by Alana Van Der Sluys

The principles of honoring your fullness and satiety come before honoring gentle nutrition. In other words, you need to go through the steps of allowing all foods and experiencing fullness before you can implement more “traditional” nutrition practices. If you practice gentle nutrition too soon in the process, you will be too worried about what foods are “healthy” which defeats the purpose. We need to stop restriction and demonization of any foods first, stop any fears of foods first. 

I warn you, though: That means there is a period where you definitely eat more “junk” foods or foods you didn’t normally allow yourself. This is COMPLETELY NORMAL and this brief period will not harm your actual health. We’re made to believe even one food item with added sugar will surely shave five years off our lives, but it’s just not true. 

I experienced this phase just like everyone else. I ate more ice cream, more carbs, more sugar, more fat…because those were the kinds of foods I had been depriving myself of. I had to expose myself to them and create habituation and routine with them in order for them to “lose their luster” and their desire in my mind. 

After you do this for a while, you start craving more nutrient dense foods and you can incorporate gentle nutrition and consider the nutrition in the foods you eat and how you will feel after eating them. 

Here are FOUR ways , though, that you can simply try it out short term. I’d rather have you try this journey than not try to all!

Graphic by Alana Van Der Sluys

Let me know which one you plan to try. It only takes one day, one step toward food freedom progress!

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